Tell us about the ring you selected - and how did you arrive at its design? Was it a shared discovery or a delightful surprise?

I had a rough idea of what I liked, but I was open-minded. My only brief was that it had to be unique. After seeing those elongated cushion cuts, I moved from a three-stone design to a solitaire - something I never thought I’d choose. I always thought simplicity would make it hard to feel unique, but I was completely wrong. The Partridge team created something so special - my ring has this beautiful hand-engraved setting detail around the outside of the diamond, which I haven’t seen before. I still catch myself staring at it in disbelief that it’s mine.

Upon seeing the ring for the first time, what was your immediate reaction?

Shock and disbelief. I didn’t know exactly what the final design would look like. Once I chose the stone, I was taken out of the conversation entirely. Grant reassured me and said if I didn’t love it, there would always be the option to alter it - but it was absolutely perfect.

Did the process of choosing the ring reveal anything new about each other’s tastes or sensibilities?

Yes, I didn’t realise Adam had such good taste.

What drew you to Partridge for such a special piece? 

My mum always visited Partridge to mark her special occasions, and I used to tag along after school to the Broadway store, mesmerised by the sparkle in the windows. I’m so grateful for that tradition — and even happier I get to continue it.

Have you begun imagining the wedding, and do you already hold a vision for the celebration?

We’re getting married in February 2026 with a small celebration surrounded by our closest friends. Adam’s from Whanganui and spent ten years living in Christchurch, while I’m from Auckland, so between us we’ve gathered friends from all over. It made narrowing down the guest list very tricky, but we’ve decided to keep it intimate - just the people we both know as a couple and who are regularly a part of our lives. 

Are there particular traditions you wish to honour, or reinterpret in a way that feels personal to you both?

Not really, the only tradition we are honouring is taking his last name, Lourie. I never thought I would want to let go of March, as I really resonate with my surname, but I can’t wait to become a Lourie and officially become a member of his family. My in-laws to-be and are the absolute best.

What aspect of planning the day brings you the greatest anticipation?

The music has been one of my favourite parts to plan. My grandparents on my dad’s side were both musicians — my grandmother, Alice, a concert pianist, and my grandfather, John, a tenor. I’ve always loved classical music, but I have far too many favourites, which is making the aisle song and first dance decisions almost impossible. I am also so excited about the other end of the night. We have the Sweet Mix Kids playing, and Sandon never misses. They truly are the best. 

Are there unique or unexpected elements you hope to include in your wedding?

I am currently working on the little personal moments and details that make a wedding feel like yours.  Those little touches and anecdotes throughout the day and night that reflect who you are as a couple - that’s the most memorable and enjoyable part of any wedding. 

How will you approach the decision around wedding bands and any other on the day jewellery or timepieces that will be worn?

I’ll be going straight back to the team at Partridge for advice - I don’t trust anyone else with my wedding band. I’m thinking something very simple, probably a really fine diamond eternity band. And for Adam, something equally understated in platinum.

What guidance would you offer to those beginning the journey toward engagement and finding the right ring to signify this cherished moment?

The most important thing to consider is the quality of the team setting your stone. The stone is one thing, but what I don't think people appreciate is the craftsmanship that’s required in setting the stone. You can definitely tell when it has been done well and even more so when it hasn’t. That goes for the design too. Your ring designer is the specialist, and they know best. Trust their guidance and don’t copy what’s trending on Pinterest!

What are you both looking forward to most, in marriage to each other?

We’re officially becoming a family, and I love that. I can’t wait to share his last name, build a life and a family together. I get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend — and there’s nothing more exciting than that.